Single's Rules

Any single male, female, wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend who violates these guidelines, particularly making any UNINVITED sexual advances, (ex., touching, caressing, kissing, exposing yourself, etc.) to any woman at our events will be asked to leave the event immediately and membership may be revoked.
Don’t ignore the spouse, no matter how much the partner likes you, because if the partner doesn’t like you, you’re not getting anywhere with the potential playmate. This doesn’t mean you need to spend all night talking with them, but introduce yourself, be cordial and play it by ear.
If someone tells you “NO”, that’s all there is to it. It’s not open for discussion! Don’t ask them, “why not?’, or “are you sure, I’m the greatest lover in the world?” They are not interested in you joining them no matter what your line is.
All in all, it’s real simple; be a gentleman, be friendly, and treat people well. Everyone will have a much better evening if the ladies have a good time, and if they do then you have a chance of being included in the fun with them.

Always be polite
Never assume
Ask permission before touching
“NO means NO!” Accept it gracefully. No is accepted by either her or her husband. No one pleases everybody. Never think you know more about what she wants then she does. Remember No is not open for negotiation … if you are told more the twice from the same couple you will be asked to leave. Same rules for women.
Most people in the lifestyle have a partner; include them in your conversation when appropriate.
Mind your manners. Be on your very best behavior.
Pay attention to nonverbal signals, both positive and negative. Body Language speaks much louder than words. Act accordingly!
When talking to others at an Event that you are interested in, make sure you understand their personal rules and boundaries. Everyone is different.
There is no guarantee that you will meet someone, but only that you will be admitted to the social space. No one owes you anything and you shouldn’t expect anything from anyone.
If you have a problem with someone …Please tell the hosts or core member. Never create or contribute to a ‘scene’!
If you're NEW and have additional questions about the lifestyle, ask to speak to a regular member couple. They will be happy to answer any questions you might have.